Women's Day Special - From TOI    

Padithadhil Pidithadhu . NethiAdi for All Women . 1st , 2nd and 4th Points are chance-less and i need to start working / improvising towards those points.. 

Five things I feel women need to change about themselves, to make things better for their own kind.

The first behavior that needs to end is the constant desire to judge other women. Women are hard on themselves. They are harder on each other. An overweight woman enters the room. Most women are thinking 'how fat is she?' A working mother misses a PTA meeting due to an office deadline, others think 'what a terrible mother she is'. A girl in a short skirt makes other women go 'Slut!' in their heads. A pretty woman's promotion makes other women wonder what she had been up to to get the job. From an ill-fitting dress to a badly cooked dish, you are ready to judge others. This, despite knowing, you yourselves are not perfect. As a woman, it is tough enough is to survive in a male dominated world. Why be so hard on each other? Can you let each other breathe?

Second, the faking needs to end. A common female trait is the relatively quick adaptation to feed male egos. Laughing at men's jokes when they aren't funny, accepting a raw deal in an office assignment or playing dumb to allow a man to feel superior are just a few occasions when you do your own kind no favor. Who are you? And why can't you be that person? Why are you faking it so much? If something bothers you, say it. What's the point of collectively harping on equality, when as individuals, you are happy to lapse into being clueless eye flutterers, just to keep men happy?

Three, and this is serious, standing up for your property rights. Plenty of Indian women give up their lawful property rights for their brothers, sons or husbands. Sorry if it sounds harsh, but too many Indian women are emotional fools and need to be told so. You are not demonstrating your eternal selflessness when you give away your property. You are hurting your own kind.

Four, women need to become more ambitious and dream bigger. All young Indians - men and women, should have a fire in their belly. Perhaps the way the Indian society is structured, our women are not encouraged to be as ambitious as men. However, for their own sake and the nation's sake, all Indian youth must have ambitions and aspirations to do well and reach their maximum potential in life. Many Indian women have done much better than men. Use them as inspiration and work towards your dreams. Your success is what will finally make Indian men respect women. Play your part.

Five, don't be too trapped in the drama of relationships. Relationships are vital. Being a good mother, wife, sister, daughter, friend and lover are extremely important. However, don't get too tangled. You have another relationship, with yourself. Don't sacrifice so much that you lose yourself. Not regularly, but just every now and then, be a little selfish. It is when a woman will assert herself she will be taken seriously. You are not only here to assist others in living their lives. You have your own life too.

Live - Let Live 

Shalu.S

THE GHOST GAME!!!!!!

Do ghosts exists???? what the heckkkkkk???? Dont ever think of asking such questions in ur life.. If Ghost exists, let it exist, if not then nothing to do with us, but for gods sake dont think of such creepy questions again...If you still want to know the answer out of curiosity then go ahead, try the game we tried and face the consequences like i and my friends have faced!!!!!!

Interesting is'nt it?? if not now, it will b interesting as u scroll down..

Sharmila, Saraniya, Sujitha and Dhivya (S^3-D) the FREAKY FOUR!!!! Our gang is named as SCARY GALS (by ourselves :P), as we are the most playfull and galatta gals of our college with absolute guts in all aspects and no fears in any situation.

My friends and I had heard several real stories of spirits, haunted houses and we used to comment on those ppl who believ in ghosts.. Even one of our college staff was sharing her experience about the Board game(ouija board) which she played to talk with the spirit of her late father. She was believing to such an extent that she said Spirits (Ghosts) exists 100 % and she has felt them too. On imagining that funny incident of her talkin with a ghost i laughed(ha ha ha) to the core and thought that she must have been hallucinated, as I said I was a non-believer then.  I was never the one to believe in the existence of ghosts or any other so called paranormal activities. But it was all my mistake which made me to realize that my views were completely wrong.. Before I explain what happened with me and my friends let me start with a short notice: PLS DONT TRY THE BELOW GAME!!!!!!!

On one fine friday we gals decided to play that so called ghost borad game for fun in my home. We prepared the chart as shown in the picture(with alphabets A-Z, numbers 0-9, Yes, No and with one 1 rupee coin) .. It was me who initiated the call for that game so i had to play first. Though we gals had no belief in such things, our heartbeat was striking high... real highhhh.... 

We Closed  the doors, switched off all the lights, sat in middle of the dark room and placed the Chart in center.  I sat down calm as I thought this would be a fun experience. I closed my eyes and kept my finger on the coin lightly which was placed in-between the Yes & No letters in the chart.. I started chanting my grandfather's name and called him to appear in front of me to test whether it was true or not!!  15 mins passed and nothing happened. All we could hear was the silent fan sound in our room. 

After a few minutes, I heard the creak of a door. But I ignored it thinking it was the wind. Suddenly the windows and lights started shaking and I heard a strange whisper coming from the bathroom side. The whisper turned into horrendous sounds of pain. And all these sounds were audible only to me. Looking at my annoyed face all the three were terrified. We got the courage and got up. I opened the door but no one was found. As we started going back, I caught something from the corner of my eye. I gasped and gripped Saran's hand after what I saw. There was a shadow standing near the chart in  our hall. I was Speechless !!! My friends were not able to spot that image but i was able to see that shadow clearly. Unable to react, my legs started to shake and within fraction of seconds we started screaming and ran out of the home.  Our staff who was explaining us about the game rules earlier mentioned that, if the game is started it shoud be completed with a perfect finishing. How long can we stay outside???? Anyways I should return to my home right??? With all possible guts and prayers we returned to the hall. No strange shadow was found in hall, but we were sure that something is wrong. As real ghost scenes in movies, Windows curtain were fluttering heavily and apart from that waves sound pin-drop silence was observed in the hall. With thrilled faces we went again to the same position. This time all the four were nervous and since i started the game, i should finish off the game. Again i kept the coin in center and started chanting my grandfathers name with these lines, "It was my mistake of playing with the spirits, I am extremely sorry for disturbing you, pls go back to your origin, I will never ever Call you again, pls go back, pls go back",,,,,,,,, 

Suddenly my hands started moving in the board without my control and saran said the following letters were touched in the chart : " I W I L L G O N O W D O N T C A L L M E A G A I N". Yes it read " I will go now, dont call me again" Later my finger along with the coin rested back in the same starting place. So finally my grandfather left or what??? After one week of that incident also, we four were running high temperature. I was sleepless for 2 full nights and slowly I came back to normal. Even now , we get goosebumps if we think about that day.. Did that really occur?? Or was it my high creativity thinking??? WE STILL ARE NOT SURE WHETHER IT HAS HAPPENED REALLY OR IT WAS OUR IMAGINATION!!! But we understood one thing clearly, never play with games which are dealt with spirits / ghosts!!!! 

THEY ARE DANGEROUS FOR SURE!!!!!

"Jillunu Oru Sodhappal"

" I too had a Love Story".... these are the first few words that strike my mind, whenever i think about my college days. Youp those days were the wonderful days of every prince and princess life. Why do 90% of love stories remain just stories rather than getting ended in marriage?? What is that stopping factor for anyone to succeed in the so called LOVE?? Well let me take my story as an example for what not to be done when in love or before love or after love. Am ANAND working in TCS. I'm a type of guy who is calm, friendly, naughty, simple, single and ready to mingle :P February 14th 2009, an unforgettable day in my life....

"Nothing is perfect and no one is perfect", that’s what is my philosophy in life. If a class contains 10 top rank holders it would obviously have another 10 last rank holders and yes I fall under the second category. It’s pretty usual that i always appear to be an outstanding student in almost all the hours. Well I guess everyone knows what outstanding means??  :P And coming back to February 14th, i still remember the dress which i wore on that particular day. My dad has a funny color taste and since I love my dad so much I wear whatever Shirt he selects for me. Ha ha ha yes it was a dark rose (sought of panjumuttaai) color when i was thrown out of class by my English sir. As usual i was standing outside the class and was sighting few of our college girls who were roaming in corridors.

 Girls love pink color. Don't they?? Anjana, my college mate of different department. Beautiful girl, wit neat hair cut, cute smile, sharp eyes and of course attractive figure. To be frank i had a crush on her from the date of seeing her. I have made million attempts for gathering her attention, but all turned down in vain. So here comes my day, i cannot believe that my crush smiled at me for the first time in the history. Ha ha Was it because of the dress color which i wore or was it because of me standing outside always? ? Oh yeah s its true, Anjana smiled at Anand.

Some instinct in my mind said that something is special about this girl and my feeling for her. The next day i was too excited about seeing her again and was searching for her in the entire college from morning 8. I know that its impossible to see her in campus by 8 cos our class starts oly by 9, but still my heartbeat was in high peak. Ha ha what's happening to me? Oh god i've never been lik this. Like a dashing beauty she came in daring black wit perfect makeover by sharp 8.45 inside our campus. Long back I Have read in an article that Girls expect boys to keep their first move in all the situations, so keeping that in mind I have decided to talk with her directly regarding my feelings for her, of course i have practiced well the dialog's too. Just three words, hi Anjana "I LOVE YOU". .  Wat you guys expect would have happened there? ?

Hmmm yes i have committed a big blunder as you all expected.. My first meeting with her was utter flop :( :( this is wat happened actually. As planned after the first two hours, i was roaming in her floor during the break time. I know that she'll come to canteen to have tea along with her gang. And yes she came too. I've enchanted all possible gods’ name in this world to get the strength and confidence to face her. With that boldness, I’ve reached near her. Standing just few centimeters away from her, i got sweated fully. Though i was damn nervous, i called her hi Anjana. Reacting to my call, she turned towards me. Oh god, oh god seeing her as close as possible for the first time, what a girl she is?? Hmmm now coming to the point, instead of telling i love you, i ended up saying, HOW ARE YOU?  Ha ha like a comedy in vadivelus movie, i said to myself. Dei Anand "un kita beginning lam nalla than irunduchu finishin than da seri illa"

The way she looked at me on asking that question just killed me. As if i asked her to run out of house and marry me, she starred at me. And the ultimate insult was, she replied WHO ARE YOU? For my HOW ARE YOU?? In my history of 21 yrs I’ve never met up a embarrassing situation like this..I was speechless and unable to react for her question. I just got stumbled for 2 min's and came back with a reply like this. Oh ya yes, you dunno me Anjana, but i know you for a long time. Just thought of having a friendly chat wit you . And nothing more. I'm anand doing my b.com final year. So how's life Anjana? Guys really have attitude right? But girls r not less too. She still kept up her rough look and yelled like this, so how do you know me long time? Do you Know my full past or what? See 'm not into these sought of talks and chats. Let this be your last attempt of talking with me. And yes Anand 'm doin gud and thanks for asking. Bye. . Wat a reply and what a slap for me. February 15th my saddest day in life :(

That's it, after that Sodhappal my chance of communicating with that lady angel became absolutely less. I had no clue of how to face her from then. (like a dialog from boss movie "sathyama avala epadi correct panradhuney enaku appo theriyala" ). Days passed by as i only had chances of sightin her from long distance. Unlikely of seeing her always behind the screen, I have firmly decided either “do or die” in this matter and started hunting for her number. "What are friends for if we cant use them"?? Yes i have literally tortured my friend surendar and my Junior murali for tracing her number. Luckily Murali 's girl friend had her number and thank god my junior gave her number at the cost of three beers. . So its my time now. . .

Initially Very basic technique of messaging gud morning, gud eve nd gud nit was followed by me. As expected after a week of waiting and repeated wish messages i got a reply finally. Excited on seeing her name in mobile and with full enthu i opened my inbox. I expected a Who's this? as reply from her but to my surprise i was totally wrong. The message was, Anand don't message and play with me. 'm not expecting any of your messages. Stop this right away. Bye. .

 Damn i'm cornered. Oh god, how did she get my number? ? What's wrong with gals? As if I was sending her some “A” jokes and rubbish contents why is she shouting at me? Am i such a cheap fellow? These questions were swirling in my mind after i got that message from her. I know that girls expect more. When their expectations does not meet, they get wex’d more. Actually Anjana would have expected atleast a sorry as reply from me. But since i was really hurted i have decided to turn her thoughts towards me this time, by simply sending a one word "K" as reply. Yes i was correct, "Girls Expect MORE" :-) in no-time after sending that "k" i got a reply from her saying, I’m sorry, i did not mean to hurt you. I don't lik these kind of messaging and that’s why i was bit harsh. Take care bye.

  I knew that it'll happen. That moment was very valuable for me. I should not miss tat chance so i just replied back stating, "its ok. Need to talk wit you tomo. See ya in college by sharp 3.45 near canteen". Bye.

As mentioned in my message she was seen in canteen by sharp 3.45 pm. This time i was much more nervous than the previous meeting as i decided to propose her face to face for sure. Acting to be cool i sat opposite to her with a big Hi and smile. Before i could start anything she smiled like a angel at me in which i was totally flattened and my words collapsed completely. I was flattered by her childish cute smile and forgot the matter which i actually wanted to speak...

My inner voice repeatedly said common Anand propose to her, don't miss this chance. Go ahead propose now, but i was not able to do that actually. Yes i have done my sodhapal this time too. Instead of telling hi Anjana i love you, i just blabbered the following dialog and ran away. This was what i spoke to her, hi Anjana, i have no wrong feeling like love or something else to you. I just wanted to be your gud friend, can we? As if she was waiting for this moment from her birth, she nodded her head immediately with a firm hand shake and we both left that place.

Gone, everything gone , my last chance of proposing her also gone. Have said to myself, “Waste da Anand nee. Cha”. For the next couple of weeks she just had a friendly smile and friendly talks with me. Though i said by words that i wished to be her friend, i was actually not able to behave like a friend with her.

My love feeling for her has never reduced or never ended and my final semester was nearing too. So i thought its better to propose her truly, rather than being her false friend. I have decided to take chance for one last time and finally typed the following message to text her. Hi Anjana, i'm sorry to tell this, i don't want to spoil the name of friendship by acting with you, I am sure that this is not friendship, I can assure you that your life with me will be fully satisfied and i just wanna tell that “I LOVE YOU” . To accept or not is your wish, but i cannot act as your friend anymore.. After pressing the send button i was so relaxed and happy that I’m true to myself atlast.

It was my last text to her, i never got a reply back and am still waiting to get a reply from her. I had a chance of meeting her in college but she never looked into my eyes thereafter and avoided me badly. Years passed by, I lost her contact after college, but definitely did not lose those sweet memories. Was i wrong? Should I not be sending that message to her??  Still confused …

 Its 2012 now and I just found her back through  facebook. Have send her friends request and waiting for her to accept. Wil she accept before this February 14? Will my sodhapal story have a happy ending? Who knows? Waiting waiting waiting waiting............................... still waiting!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

TOM n JERRY

                   "All marriages are happy. It's the living together afterward that causes all the trouble" - Raymond Hull
Recently my head was hit hard with these lines in one of the leading newspaper, "For every 100 marriages happening in one part of world, there are 100 divorces happening in other part of world".
                 
So Staying happy together for the first few months and boxing with each other for  rest of our life is what we all have heard about married life !!!
                 
Ippo namma kadhaiku varuvom!!
                             
I am shalini, Enaku orey oru Amma & orey oru Appa. Avanga renduperukum naan orey oru Ponnu (Chella Ponnu). 
                         
En Appa - Oru Kutty HITLER . Oru manushan eppoyavadhu tension aagalam, eppo yavadhu kovapadalam, eppoyavadhu kathalaam Aana eppovumey kovama, tension ah, kathikte irundhaa adhu en Appa mattum than.. ( Though he shouts for no reason , he is such a wonderful father for me. Orey ponnu la so endha alavuku tension aavaro andha alavuku paasatha kaatuvaaru )


En Amma - Romba Amaidhi, apdi lam naan sathyama solla maaten. Avangalum konjakooda salaichavanga illa, oru Kutty Sooraveli and sometimes AMAIDHI puyal :)


Some of the instances and incidents in my home make me feel that i should have not born in this stupid world itself. Puriyala la, mela padinga,, sorry sorry keela padinga!!!!


T.V Remote - Vechathu vecha edathula illa na, maximum oru manushan evlo neram kathuvaaru?? 5 minutes ??? 10 minutes ???? But en Appa mooochu vidaama oru Arai mani nerathuku(30 mins) kathikte irupaaru. Seri T.V remote matter kuda manichu vitudalam, eppoyavadhu than apdi nadakum, But water bottle sandai enga veetla daily nadakura sandai. Bottle thaniya adhoda Moodi(cap) thaniya irundha avlo than, anniku enga veetla Randaka randaka randaka than, en ammakum appakum semma sanda nadakum ( Idhula sanda podrathuku enna ya iruku nu neenga feel pannalam,,naanum apdi than feel panren,, but only my dad and god knows the answer)


Seri ivaru than ipadi na, en mom adhuku mela. She is a Higher secondary teacher, so eppovumey advice than ( Though those advices help me always to choose correct decision).
Indha bottle sandai and Tv remote sandai mudunja anju nimishatula light sandai aaramichidum. She used to correct her papers with all the possible light in my home in ON position. Ha ha en appa ku enga irundhu than mooku verkumo therila, kelapiktu odi vandhu ella lightayum off panniduvaaru..


Sollava venum, Light podunga light podunga nu oru 10 nimishathuku avanga renduperum Fight poduvaanga. Ippadi ye ellathukum daily sandai--- ninna sanda, nadantha sandai oru padathula solra madhri kanavula kooda sanda poduvaanga pola, who knows??? "Enna Koduma Sir Idhu"


Though these stupid silly fights and meanigless problems make me depressed, in recent times i have understood what love is and what a complete family is... Yes, I was wrong in understanding my Parents. Finally the day i have been waiting for has come.


It was last month, when my dad was in Pondy and Thaaney (Puyal) was playing hide and seek with Pondy so much wildly. My mom was sleepless, she was praying hard that thaaney should not affect a hurricane (thats ma dad) :) She did not eat her lunch till she got that call from my dad saying he was safe and fine there.  All wives do the same but my mom is special for me.  At that very point i understood what love was... oh god how lucky my dad is???? ( Anyways thanks to Thaaney)



Similarly , my mom got wheezing trouble recently for which my dad was really upset and did not sleep the entire night. He was checking her periodically and forgot to sleep the entire night ( Avaraaa ivaruuu???). Though i always say , i love my mom more than anything in this world on that particular day i slept at 11.00 PM sharp. While Hitler can lose his sleep why cant me???  ( Hee hee girls are always girls)



One thing i felt like sharing here is about TOM and JERRY. Though they pull each others leg often, fight with each other vigorously and pretend to be enemies of each other, Tom cannot live without Jerry and Jerry cannot live without Tom.


Yes thats true, My mom cannot live without my dad and my dad cannot live without my mom for a nano second also. I understood what love is, what life is and what marriage is . Love you mom and Love you dad!!!!



Am happy that their 25th wedding day falls on May 31st. Waiting for the day to celebrate their silver jublee!!!! 
Tom and jerry always make a gud pair onscreen and obviously my mom and dad make a gud pair in life :) 
"When you make a sacrifice in marriage, you're sacrificing not to each other but to unity in a relationship". 


                                                                  Yours Loving
                                                                      Shalu.S

Love - In Smile of others

Marriages are made in heaven - This is what people say about  marriage.  But I was a girl who thought  after-marriage life should be made in heaven. I was waiting for the HIM to enter my life, waiting to experience love. After years of waiting it happened one day and I discovered my love. If you are eager to know how, you should first know about me. Hi, I am Shalini.

I work in a software company as a test lead. I love pets, i love music, i love my parents and obviously i love ma friends.. Am a chubby girl with cool attitude.. Now enough about my introduction lets go to my love story!!!!

I was sitting in a park, waiting for him for almost half an hour. I looked around to make sure that none of them around were known. I was very much tensed and I picked my phone from my handbag and dialed his number; it said the line was busy. Suddenly he closed my eyes from behind. I was very sure it was him; I knew every movement of his, his odor, something always made me realize his presence. He slowly hugged me from behind. He came near me, looking into my eyes and sat next to me. We looked at each other for none-knows-how-long. Suddenly it started raining. The rain dissolved us, the bench we sat on, the park, everything. My mom started yelling “Shalu, time to get up. Don't you want to go to office today?”.

This dream of mine disturbed me a lot. Being at the right point in the age ladder to fall in love, this was more than enough to create enough distraction. Adding to it my friend Srinath came to me with a wide smile asking for a cofffee. To be frank i had a crush on him bigtime, which made me say Yes to the coffee..

Yes,, we were in Coffee shop.. Srinath and I had a long discussion about various topics,,, without knowing for what we r discussing about these stuffs, he started like this...

Him - Shalini , what do you think about living together?
Me - Well, Namma culture ku set aagadhu Sri.
Him - Apdi lam illa, we can give it a try,, I have a feeling for you, but that does not mean that i love you,, we will live together sometime and decide our future. what say???
Me - R yu kidding. Am not a girl  of that type.. Thanks for the cofee and Bye.
Him - Shalini one second. just listen me pls..
Me - ya sollu.
Him - I just said we will live together. that does not include any physical relationship and things.
Me - Need some time thinking about it. But now my answer is NO.. Byeee..


Two days passed and i still did not say yes to him. The third day i made up my mind to accept his proposal. . I did not want to text him or tell the Yes over the phone. I wore my favorite dress and chose the best set of ear ring. I lit the lamp in the Pooja room and prayed god. I always do that before taking big decisions in life. I waited for him in my office lobby. He came there but to my surprise with my friend in his side. His arms were around her shoulder.


"Hi Shalu” said Swathi, a good looking girl who works with me. She was very close with him and said “Hey we have planned to live-together for sometime. He asked me yesterday and I said yes.” I wished them good luck. He shamelessly smiled at me and said "come darling lets go" and took her away. “Beep” there was a text message for me. It was from him. It read “I asked few of you and she agreed to that proposal. So you better don’t tell her that I asked you out. That is when i realized that there was nothing called love. I always used to say love is neither a feeling nor an emotion, it is just an assumption. People assume that they are in love and hurt themselves.
I was upset when i drove back home. I was driving as slow as possible. I still remember that second of that day. I saw a guy standing in the side of the road in the signal. He was waiting to cross the road. At that moment I did not know that he was the one who was going to make me realize what true love is. The guy fell down and went unconscious, right in front of my eyes. I stopped the bike instantaneously and ran to him. I picked him up with the help of people around and drove him to the hospital. After few hours of waiting outside and looking at him, the doctor said he was fine. I went near him and sat next to him. I did not know him before but something brought tears in my eyes. He took my help and got up. He asked me to sit near him in the bed. I sat. It was just like the scene in my dream but the location was different. He hugged me and kissed me in my cheek. That was my first kiss ever; i felt the same way i had felt in my dreams. I lifted him up and made him sit on my hip. Yes, he was five years old. I discovered what love was that very minute.

Love is not that which you assume it is; it is something that’s found in everyone everywhere. The real love lives in every smile of others.

Love ----- R you True ???????????

Years ago,  getting married to the same person we love was something Amazing, Special and Rare.

But now, whats Love??

A Guy gets impressed with a girls look, he falls in love with her.. oh god thats sick..

A girl gets impressed with a boy's Status, she falls in love with him... oh god thats yuck.

 Friends where are we???  Real meaning for love is getting destroyed!!!

Why is this happening like this.. Afterall we are all humans. Point here is R we still behaving like humans???

While Creatures like dogs and cats with 5 sense can love us, make us happy and live with us till its life end, why creatures with 6 sense cant make it??? Love makes Life beautifull, Rather using it for dialogue make it true .

Alago, Panamo kaadhalai vilaiku vaanga mudiyaadhu..
kaadhal --- Nammala thaakanum, Paatha odaney porati podanum,, Its all filmy

Paathu, Palagi, Pesi, Purinju, vittukuduthu, varathu than Kaadhal.

Dumping others and getting dumped by others is wat all about in this hurry burry life..

Come out of all these stuffs, find time, find a person for you, love him/her, stay happy, make others happy and finally make some memories that you had a happy life in this world!!!

                                                                                                  Live, Let Live!!!!
                                                                                                      Sharmi.S

Happy or Thin????????????

I am a girl who doesn’t give much importance to looks and dressing. Every time I meet some friend of mine on the street after a long gap the first thing I always heard was “ what’s this Sharmi you have put on” that was never a statement that could bring a smile in my face. None of the present day girls like such comments. I was not so much worried about how much weight I put on each week I never counted on the calories I ate. But such comments got repeated over and again from people and that really made me worry. Girls run behind size zero and none even mistakenly calls me “thin”.  Whenever someone offered me some chocolate “WORLD IS RUNNING BEHIND ‘SIZE ZERO’ ” , a news paper article I read used to flash in my mind .though I loved eating them I used to meaninglessly refuse.

Recently I read a book “one night at the call center” by chetan bhagath. It has the one night story at the c all center with few flash backs of our hero shyam’s dates with priyanka (a girl who works there, his ex-girl friend). One line in the book hit my head heard. On a date when she was counting the calories before ordering her food he asked her “Priyanka, do you want to live happy or thin?” and she answered “Thin”. WOW what an eye opener. I am not like “Priyanka” I am a girl who prefers “Happy” to “Thin”. I said to myself “I am not a model or an actress to become thin. I am ok with what I am. Maybe I’m just a few extra Kgs. Who cares?!”
most of the girls today choose food based on the calorie count.whats the point in living if we are not even able to eat what we find delicious? Life is fine even when you are FAT. Just that you need to remain healthy. So girls come on lets live happily and eat what we like than what makes us or retains us THIN. :P


Inspired from Gee Bee akka :)