"All marriages are happy. It's the living together afterward that causes all the trouble" - Raymond Hull
Recently my head was hit hard with these lines in one of the leading newspaper, "For every 100 marriages happening in one part of world, there are 100 divorces happening in other part of world".
So Staying happy together for the first few months and boxing with each other for rest of our life is what we all have heard about married life !!!
Ippo namma kadhaiku varuvom!!
I am shalini, Enaku orey oru Amma & orey oru Appa. Avanga renduperukum naan orey oru Ponnu (Chella Ponnu).
En Appa - Oru Kutty HITLER . Oru manushan eppoyavadhu tension aagalam, eppo yavadhu kovapadalam, eppoyavadhu kathalaam Aana eppovumey kovama, tension ah, kathikte irundhaa adhu en Appa mattum than.. ( Though he shouts for no reason , he is such a wonderful father for me. Orey ponnu la so endha alavuku tension aavaro andha alavuku paasatha kaatuvaaru )
En Amma - Romba Amaidhi, apdi lam naan sathyama solla maaten. Avangalum konjakooda salaichavanga illa, oru Kutty Sooraveli and sometimes AMAIDHI puyal :)
Some of the instances and incidents in my home make me feel that i should have not born in this stupid world itself. Puriyala la, mela padinga,, sorry sorry keela padinga!!!!
T.V Remote - Vechathu vecha edathula illa na, maximum oru manushan evlo neram kathuvaaru?? 5 minutes ??? 10 minutes ???? But en Appa mooochu vidaama oru Arai mani nerathuku(30 mins) kathikte irupaaru. Seri T.V remote matter kuda manichu vitudalam, eppoyavadhu than apdi nadakum, But water bottle sandai enga veetla daily nadakura sandai. Bottle thaniya adhoda Moodi(cap) thaniya irundha avlo than, anniku enga veetla Randaka randaka randaka than, en ammakum appakum semma sanda nadakum ( Idhula sanda podrathuku enna ya iruku nu neenga feel pannalam,,naanum apdi than feel panren,, but only my dad and god knows the answer)
Seri ivaru than ipadi na, en mom adhuku mela. She is a Higher secondary teacher, so eppovumey advice than ( Though those advices help me always to choose correct decision).
Indha bottle sandai and Tv remote sandai mudunja anju nimishatula light sandai aaramichidum. She used to correct her papers with all the possible light in my home in ON position. Ha ha en appa ku enga irundhu than mooku verkumo therila, kelapiktu odi vandhu ella lightayum off panniduvaaru..
Sollava venum, Light podunga light podunga nu oru 10 nimishathuku avanga renduperum Fight poduvaanga. Ippadi ye ellathukum daily sandai--- ninna sanda, nadantha sandai oru padathula solra madhri kanavula kooda sanda poduvaanga pola, who knows??? "Enna Koduma Sir Idhu"
Though these stupid silly fights and meanigless problems make me depressed, in recent times i have understood what love is and what a complete family is... Yes, I was wrong in understanding my Parents. Finally the day i have been waiting for has come.
It was last month, when my dad was in Pondy and Thaaney (Puyal) was playing hide and seek with Pondy so much wildly. My mom was sleepless, she was praying hard that thaaney should not affect a hurricane (thats ma dad) :) She did not eat her lunch till she got that call from my dad saying he was safe and fine there. All wives do the same but my mom is special for me. At that very point i understood what love was... oh god how lucky my dad is???? ( Anyways thanks to Thaaney)
Similarly , my mom got wheezing trouble recently for which my dad was really upset and did not sleep the entire night. He was checking her periodically and forgot to sleep the entire night ( Avaraaa ivaruuu???). Though i always say , i love my mom more than anything in this world on that particular day i slept at 11.00 PM sharp. While Hitler can lose his sleep why cant me??? ( Hee hee girls are always girls)
One thing i felt like sharing here is about TOM and JERRY. Though they pull each others leg often, fight with each other vigorously and pretend to be enemies of each other, Tom cannot live without Jerry and Jerry cannot live without Tom.
Yes thats true, My mom cannot live without my dad and my dad cannot live without my mom for a nano second also. I understood what love is, what life is and what marriage is . Love you mom and Love you dad!!!!
Am happy that their 25th wedding day falls on May 31st. Waiting for the day to celebrate their silver jublee!!!!
Tom and jerry always make a gud pair onscreen and obviously my mom and dad make a gud pair in life :)
"When you make a sacrifice in marriage, you're sacrificing not to each other but to unity in a relationship".
Yours Loving
Shalu.S
Recently my head was hit hard with these lines in one of the leading newspaper, "For every 100 marriages happening in one part of world, there are 100 divorces happening in other part of world".
So Staying happy together for the first few months and boxing with each other for rest of our life is what we all have heard about married life !!!
Ippo namma kadhaiku varuvom!!
I am shalini, Enaku orey oru Amma & orey oru Appa. Avanga renduperukum naan orey oru Ponnu (Chella Ponnu).
En Appa - Oru Kutty HITLER . Oru manushan eppoyavadhu tension aagalam, eppo yavadhu kovapadalam, eppoyavadhu kathalaam Aana eppovumey kovama, tension ah, kathikte irundhaa adhu en Appa mattum than.. ( Though he shouts for no reason , he is such a wonderful father for me. Orey ponnu la so endha alavuku tension aavaro andha alavuku paasatha kaatuvaaru )
En Amma - Romba Amaidhi, apdi lam naan sathyama solla maaten. Avangalum konjakooda salaichavanga illa, oru Kutty Sooraveli and sometimes AMAIDHI puyal :)
Some of the instances and incidents in my home make me feel that i should have not born in this stupid world itself. Puriyala la, mela padinga,, sorry sorry keela padinga!!!!
T.V Remote - Vechathu vecha edathula illa na, maximum oru manushan evlo neram kathuvaaru?? 5 minutes ??? 10 minutes ???? But en Appa mooochu vidaama oru Arai mani nerathuku(30 mins) kathikte irupaaru. Seri T.V remote matter kuda manichu vitudalam, eppoyavadhu than apdi nadakum, But water bottle sandai enga veetla daily nadakura sandai. Bottle thaniya adhoda Moodi(cap) thaniya irundha avlo than, anniku enga veetla Randaka randaka randaka than, en ammakum appakum semma sanda nadakum ( Idhula sanda podrathuku enna ya iruku nu neenga feel pannalam,,naanum apdi than feel panren,, but only my dad and god knows the answer)
Seri ivaru than ipadi na, en mom adhuku mela. She is a Higher secondary teacher, so eppovumey advice than ( Though those advices help me always to choose correct decision).
Indha bottle sandai and Tv remote sandai mudunja anju nimishatula light sandai aaramichidum. She used to correct her papers with all the possible light in my home in ON position. Ha ha en appa ku enga irundhu than mooku verkumo therila, kelapiktu odi vandhu ella lightayum off panniduvaaru..
Sollava venum, Light podunga light podunga nu oru 10 nimishathuku avanga renduperum Fight poduvaanga. Ippadi ye ellathukum daily sandai--- ninna sanda, nadantha sandai oru padathula solra madhri kanavula kooda sanda poduvaanga pola, who knows??? "Enna Koduma Sir Idhu"
Though these stupid silly fights and meanigless problems make me depressed, in recent times i have understood what love is and what a complete family is... Yes, I was wrong in understanding my Parents. Finally the day i have been waiting for has come.
It was last month, when my dad was in Pondy and Thaaney (Puyal) was playing hide and seek with Pondy so much wildly. My mom was sleepless, she was praying hard that thaaney should not affect a hurricane (thats ma dad) :) She did not eat her lunch till she got that call from my dad saying he was safe and fine there. All wives do the same but my mom is special for me. At that very point i understood what love was... oh god how lucky my dad is???? ( Anyways thanks to Thaaney)
Similarly , my mom got wheezing trouble recently for which my dad was really upset and did not sleep the entire night. He was checking her periodically and forgot to sleep the entire night ( Avaraaa ivaruuu???). Though i always say , i love my mom more than anything in this world on that particular day i slept at 11.00 PM sharp. While Hitler can lose his sleep why cant me??? ( Hee hee girls are always girls)
One thing i felt like sharing here is about TOM and JERRY. Though they pull each others leg often, fight with each other vigorously and pretend to be enemies of each other, Tom cannot live without Jerry and Jerry cannot live without Tom.
Yes thats true, My mom cannot live without my dad and my dad cannot live without my mom for a nano second also. I understood what love is, what life is and what marriage is . Love you mom and Love you dad!!!!
Am happy that their 25th wedding day falls on May 31st. Waiting for the day to celebrate their silver jublee!!!!
Tom and jerry always make a gud pair onscreen and obviously my mom and dad make a gud pair in life :)
"When you make a sacrifice in marriage, you're sacrificing not to each other but to unity in a relationship".
Yours Loving
Shalu.S
All will have only one father and one mother .. :P
ReplyDeletePoda loose, story epdi iruku nu sollu!!! mokka pisasu!!
ReplyDeleteIts nice d :)
ReplyDeleteLovely :-)
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